Let me get this out of the way first!! I HATE NICE GUYS!! Now there was a time in my life where I used to be one and I learned fast that it is not the way to live. I switched up and became a Good Guy. Now, many of you will say, "Hey Peanut Head, what's the difference?" Well, Im going to point them out!! Many of you many say, "Damn, I am a Nice Guy (in complete doofus voice)!" If you find yourself saying this, I am here to help you make the change. Here are a few differences between a Good Guy and a Nice Guy.
1.) A Good Guy has real confidence in his abilities. Confidence is what separates the champs from the chumps, the pitbulls and the poodles, and MJ and Lebron!! A good guy knows what he is capable of and is confident enough to take control of his life and not give a damn about what others think about him or his decisions. A nice guy just lets life happen around him. He's scared to find out what he is capable of (with a little hard work and determination) and cares too much about what people think of him!! If you are the nice guy, go to the mirror and slap some toughness into that frail grill piece!!!
2.) A Good Guy knows what he wants from a woman and WILL TELL HER UPFRONT!! I will not get into Bad Boys today because that would become a completely separate discussion!! But good guys have no problem telling his girl what they will do on a Saturday Night. He knows how to treat his woman (in terms of respect ie; hold doors open, paying, etc) and understands when to be charming, when to complement his woman, etc. Nice Guys are indecisive with their woman. He doesn't know how to complement his woman (generic crap like "Ummm..You look ummm....good?),.and has no real idea what he wants out of a woman. Is she my friend? Is she my lover? Do I look good in these jeans? MAN UP!!! Here are 2 examples of conversations. 1st is the Good Guy, Next is the Nice Guy!!
Good Guy: Hey ____ u wanna go out tonight?
Young Woman: Sure! What do u have planned?
Good Guy: I figure we grab a bite to eat, go bowling, and the rest is a surprise!
Young Woman: Sounds interesting! I like surprises!
Good Guy: Ill pick u up at 8!
Young Woman: OK!!
Nice Guy: Umm...Hi _____ I was wondering...ummm...do you have any plans this evening..(*wets himself)
Young Woman: No! What do you have in mind?
Nice Guy: Umm...whatever you want to do is fine.....
Young Woman: Umm..you called me. I thought you had something in mind.
Nice Guy: Well...I just want to be around you so whatever you want to do is cool with me....
Young Woman: I think Im gonna hang with my girls..
Nice Guy: Oh..thats cool!! Maybe I can see you sometime this weekend?
Young Woman: NO!!!
Nice Guy: Ok talk to you later (*grabs bottle of lotion and goes to his bed to..ummm...you get the point!)
I could go on forever on this topic!! There has only been one time in my life where I intentionally played the nice guy. It was for a special girl and it was a learning experience!! It took many women and a lot of baby games played to go from nice guy to dickhead to good guy!! The whole point of this is that, if you are living life as a softee, stop it now!! Hit the weights, read some self help books, stop masturbating and become a man!!! Set some goals and become decisive!! Stop letting life pass you by!! And any other cliche I could think of!!! 2nd Blog done!!! Follow me on Twitter!!!
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